QUOTE OF THE DAY

“The shorter way to do many things is to only do one thing at a time.”
– Mozart

IDEA OF THE DAY 

As I sit down with a hot cup of tea to draft this newsletter, a few text messages ping on my phone. I answer them and return to writing. Then, my inbox lights up with two new emails (oh, goody!). I skim them, decide they’re not urgent, and refocus on the task at hand. My partner strolls by and shares a thought; we have a quick conversation before I turn back to my screen. Just then, Wesley, our cat, demands my attention—or, rather, food—with his persistent meows. I take a moment to comfort him.

Now…where was I? Ah, yes! Writing a newsletter. For you. About not getting distracted.

How did I do?

The pull of distractions surrounds us constantly. We scroll through social media, binge-watch shows, or get lost in online shopping. These habits are easy to slip into—and there’s a reason we’re drawn to them.

Our brains are wired for efficiency and survival, prioritizing short-term rewards over long-term gains. Activities like scrolling social media or playing video games provide quick dopamine hits, reinforcing the behavior. In contrast, meaningful tasks often require effort and come with delayed gratification, which the brain tends to resist.

But here’s the thing: a healthy sense of distraction isn’t always bad. Sometimes we need to zone out and rest. The problem arises when hours pass on our phones, or we feel drained and unfulfilled by the very things meant to entertain us.

So how do we resist the pull of these distractions?

Start small. Try taking short daily breaks from your phone and practicing a few minutes of mindfulness. When working on something meaningful—like writing a newsletter—put your phone face down, close your inbox, and create a focused, distraction-free environment. And if life feels overwhelming from all the directions you’re being pulled, take a nature break. Go outside, stare at a tree, and let yourself reset. (Trust me, it works wonders.)

Distractions will always be there—but with a little intention, you can navigate them and refocus on what truly matters.

QUESTION OF THE DAY

What distractions do I turn to most often, and how can I recognize when they shift from being restorative to draining?

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